Online Dating Do’s and Don’ts

Dr. Phil…

Love him or hate him, women listen to this guy.

And I listen to the people women listen to because I want to learn what the guy’s doing that makes women like him…

And because I want to know what he’s telling them so I can work with that to attract the women I want.

In a recent article the bald doctor went out on a limb and gave his readers a list of do’s and don’ts. I think we should take a look for ourselves MAYBE, but for sure to see what women are thinking.

Some Advice Before Writing Your Profile

· What is special, unique, distinctive, or impressive about you or your life story?

· What details of your life, personal or family challenges, history, people or events have shaped you or influenced your life goals?

· What have you learned about past relationships, in terms of yourself?

· What are your relationship goals?

· Have you had to overcome any unusual obstacles or hardships (for example, economic, familial or physical) in your life?

· Consult your friends and family for help in writing your online profile. There are things that they love about you that you might not otherwise think about for yourself.

· What personal characteristics (for example, integrity, compassion, persistence) do you possess, and how can you demonstrate that you have these characteristics?

· Why might you be a stronger candidate than others?

· What is the single most compelling reason you can give a person to be interested in you?

I don’t know about you guys, but I would love to see a profile written by a woman who thought about all these things and put them in her online dating profile.

http://youtu.be/jJ-LE1oOrcc

Most of the profiles I see are so generic, a woman who gave me this much information to use to seduce her would be a gift.

Here Are Some General Tips For Online Dating

· Do respond to every e-mail that you get. If you were walking down the street and someone said hello, you’d probably say hello back. It’s the same protocol online. Respond, even if the answer is a simple, “No, thanks.”

· Keep it light. Your first e-mail should not be a rant about how expensive gas prices are. Keep it lighthearted in tone and keep it simple.

· Don’t reveal confidential information in your e-mail exchanges. If you were at a local coffee house, you wouldn’t give out your home address to just anyone standing in line.

· Don’t meet in person until you’ve actually talked on the phone. You know voice and sound are great way to judge chemistry. Source

Ummm…

Yeah, right.

Did you read that first one where they said to respond to all the messages you get? That is not going to happen. Women get way too many messages to reply to all of them.

If you want to see how to write emails that women respond to, check out this link .